"They're going to fall out anyway" is the most common thing parents say when I tell them a baby tooth needs filling, and it is a reasonable thing to think. The problem is timing. A first molar arrives at around two and is not replaced until ten or eleven, so a cavity found at four has eight years to cause trouble, and it usually does.
The enamel on a baby tooth is roughly half the thickness of an adult one, and the nerve chamber inside sits proportionally larger and closer to the surface. Decay that would take two or three years to reach the nerve in an adult tooth can do it in a matter of months in a child.
This is why a small mark that looked unimportant in March can be an abscess by the summer, and why the six-month interval between check-ups matters more for children than it does for you.
Pain, usually at night. Which means a child who is not sleeping and a parent who is not either.
Infection. Once decay reaches the nerve, the tooth dies and an abscess forms. Facial swelling in a small child is not a wait-and-see situation.
Damage to the permanent tooth underneath. This is the one parents do not expect. The adult tooth is forming directly beneath the baby tooth root, and infection at that site can affect its enamel as it develops. A permanent tooth can arrive discoloured, malformed or weakened because of an infection in the tooth above it years earlier.
Loss of space. Baby molars hold the position for the permanent teeth behind them. If one is lost too early, the teeth on either side drift into the gap, and the permanent tooth arrives to find nowhere to go. That is a common route into orthodontic crowding that could have been avoided.
Eating and speech. A child who is chewing on one side or avoiding certain foods because of pain, and front teeth that matter more for speech development than people realise.
The experience itself. A child whose first real dental treatment is urgent, uncomfortable and unplanned learns something about dentists that takes years to unlearn.
Early decay is not yet a hole. It shows as a white or brown mark on the enamel, usually along the gum line, and at that stage the process can be arrested.
Fluoride varnish applied regularly, better brushing technique, and reducing how often sugar reaches the teeth can remineralise the surface. This works only if it is caught early, which is the entire argument for check-ups before anything hurts.
A filling. Tooth-coloured material, the decay removed, done in one visit. Local anaesthetic where needed, explained to the child first. Most children manage this perfectly well when they have not arrived in pain.
A crown. Where too much of the tooth has been lost for a filling to hold, a preformed crown covers the whole tooth. This looks dramatic to a parent but it is often the better option: it is one appointment, it seals the tooth completely, and it lasts until the tooth falls out naturally. A large filling in a small tooth frequently fails and has to be redone, which means more appointments.
A pulpotomy. Where decay has reached the nerve but the tooth is still savable, the affected part of the pulp is removed, the rest is treated and the tooth is crowned. It keeps the tooth in place until it is due to come out.
Extraction. The last option, and where a tooth is lost early we usually place a space maintainer, a small appliance that holds the gap open so the permanent tooth has room to arrive.
Most decay in children starts in the same place: the biting surface of the back molars. Those surfaces are not flat, they are a landscape of deep narrow grooves, and some of those grooves are narrower than a toothbrush bristle. No amount of good brushing cleans them properly.
A sealant is a thin coating flowed into those grooves and set hard, turning the surface into something smooth that a brush can actually clean. It is painless, requires no drilling and no anaesthetic, and takes a few minutes per tooth. For a child who has managed a check-up, a sealant appointment is easy.
The timing is what matters. The first permanent molars arrive at around six, right at the back, often without a parent noticing because nothing falls out to make room for them. Those are the teeth to seal, and the window is shortly after they erupt, before decay has started. The second molars follow at around twelve.
Sealants are checked at each visit and topped up if they wear, and they are one of the few interventions in dentistry where the evidence is unambiguous.
Frequency more than quantity. Every time sugar reaches the teeth, the acid attack lasts around twenty minutes. A chocolate bar eaten in one go is one attack. The same chocolate grazed across an afternoon is six.
Which makes juice sipped through the day worse than juice with a meal, and a water bottle filled with anything other than water a genuine problem in this climate, where children drink constantly.
Two things catch parents out. Bedtime is when it matters most, because saliva flow drops overnight and whatever is on the teeth stays there until morning: milk in a bottle at bedtime is a common cause of decay in very young children. And long-term liquid medicines are frequently sugar-based, so a child on daily medication for months has a raised risk that nobody mentioned. Sugar-free versions usually exist.
Twice a day, and the evening one is the one that counts. Children need help or supervision until around seven or eight, because manual dexterity arrives later than willingness.
Use a fluoride toothpaste at the concentration appropriate for their age, spit rather than rinse so the fluoride stays on the teeth, and start cleaning between teeth as soon as two of them touch, because that contact point is where a brush cannot reach and where decay you cannot see begins.
It is common, it is not a verdict on your parenting, and the useful response is to treat it and then work out what to change. Bring them in before it hurts, because a child treated calmly at a planned appointment has a completely different experience from one treated urgently at nine on a Thursday night.
Yes. A baby molar is not replaced until ten or eleven, so a cavity at four has years to cause pain and infection. Untreated decay can also damage the permanent tooth forming underneath and cause crowding if the tooth is lost early.
Baby teeth have thinner enamel and a proportionally larger nerve chamber closer to the surface. Decay that would take years to reach the nerve in an adult tooth can do it in months.
If caught early, sometimes. Decay that is still a white or brown mark rather than a hole can often be arrested with fluoride varnish, better brushing and reduced sugar frequency. This only works before a cavity forms.
Where too much tooth has been lost for a filling to hold. A crown seals the tooth completely in one appointment and lasts until the tooth falls out naturally, whereas a large filling in a small tooth often fails and has to be redone.
A thin coating flowed into the deep grooves of the back molars and set hard, making the surface smooth enough for a toothbrush to clean. No drilling, no anaesthetic, a few minutes per tooth.
Shortly after the first permanent molars erupt at around six, and again for the second molars at around twelve. The point is to seal the tooth before decay starts.
How often sugar reaches the teeth matters more than how much. Grazing and sipping sweet drinks through the day is worse than the same amount at a meal. Bedtime is the highest-risk time, and long-term liquid medicines are often sugar-based.
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